Cyber Dating

So I have heard alot of stories about people who have tried it. And I just didnt get it. I believe that 80% of the guys that try online dating are just looking for sex. Don't get me wrong, sex is good. But I also believe that 80% of the women that try dating online are looking for a genuine relationship. Which is also...good. I believe that the male population is made of two types of guys. The first group is made up of about 75% of men who want nothing but a fuck buddy or a meaningless relationship. Ladies you are right to think that most guys are pigs. I agree. Most guys will treat you like crap and throw you away, or keep you around until you get tired of them. I have seen it more often or not, with friends or just people on the street. But whats worse than a guy who treats you like shit is a girl who stays and puts up with it because you "love" him. Where do you think your relationship will go if he doesn't really care about it.

The second group of guys, about 25%, are genuine, nice, caring guys. Yes ladies they do exist, just ask anyone I have dated lol. These are the guys who are serious about making you happy and doing what it takes to make the relationship work. These are the guys who aren't afraid of commitment and getting into a serious relationship. They are few and far between, so when you get one, KEEP HIM! The old adage is very true, nice guys DO finish last. Trust me I know. It sucks so when we, the nice guys, find someone we truly care about we tend to try harder which is one of the reasons our relationships work so well. And if we get lucky enough to be in a relationship with someone we fall in love with, we work harder cause we know how bad it sucks not to feel that.

The whole point of dating is to get to know the other person well enough to consider a relationship. We all put our best foot forward on a first date. How are we to truly know someone we have never meet except for a few hours in some chat room? Browse some dating sites. If its reputable, you wont see anyone saying that all they want is sex. Guys put on a mask of being genuine until they get what they want. Ever been in a relationship where you started it with one person and ended it with a completely different person? That's what happened, they got what they wanted and for awhile they keep up the facade to keep it for awhile, but over time they get tired of not being themselves. They didn't change into this differ ant person over time. They started off deceiving you and then showed you the real them, which isn't as appealing as what you thought they were.

That's how online dating works. Deceive them until you get what you want. So any of you out there considering dating online, don't! Those of you who are reading this and are currently doing it, stop! There will be some of you that didnt believe what I say. And that's OK. But when you get burned don't come crying to me. I have givin you fair warning, and in site into the male way of life. Well most of them anyway. Keep on the look out for us good guys and give us a shot. You don't have to be one of the many women who fall for the asshole.

JoeLove out!